15 Years and Counting: Aaron's CFR Story

What does it take to stick with something for 15 years?

Not motivation.

Motivation runs out.

It takes something else, something closer to a habit that turns into a life.

Aaron sent his first email about CrossFit Roselle on July 1, 2011. He still has it. Before that, he'd tried the Bartlett Park District gym and a couple months at a different CrossFit gym. Nothing stuck until a friend told him to come check out CFR. His first Saturday WOD, he ran into a guy he went to high school with.

"I've always challenged myself in different ways, from triathlons to Tough Mudders and Spartan races," Aaron said. "The park district gym just wasn't doing it for me. I needed something different. I needed a community."

That word, community, comes up again and again when Aaron talks about why he's still here.

The Numbers Don't Even Tell the Whole Story

Our tracking software puts Aaron's class count at 1,469 over the past 11-ish years. But his membership goes back further than the software does. Fifteen years of showing up, habitually.

He's not chasing a leaderboard spot. He's not hunting a PR every week. Ask him what keeps him coming back thousands of times and he doesn't talk about specific lifts at all.

"I'm always pushing to make it a minimum of three to four days a week," he said, "and I enjoy hitting up a local CrossFit affiliate whenever I'm traveling."

Consistency, not numbers on the whiteboard. Showing up on the ordinary weeks, not just the ones where something big is on the line.

Still Chasing Something

Fifteen years in, Aaron still has a list of goals he’s after. When asked what’s changed since year one, he said - laughing - "getting older!" Then he explained double-unders are still torturing him, and Kelsey won't let him forget that he needs to keep chasing that goal.

That's the part people miss about long-term members. It's not that they've mastered everything and now just show up out of habit. Aaron still has skills to chase, weights to move, movements to clean up, and workouts he looks forward to every year: Murph, the 12 Days of Christmas workout, and the CrossFit Open specifically. He's watched CFR's approach to the Open grow into something bigger each year and calls the energy around it “electric.” (We agree. 🤗)

A New Kind of Freedom

For years, Aaron's training happened around full-time dad duty. His daughters are off at school now (and graduating in December, “following dear old Dad with degrees in Accounting!”), and that's changed things.

"It's nice having the freedom to make fitness more consistently about me again," he said. He's still trying to recruit his daughter Jessica away from a globo gym but so far, “she's not convinced CrossFit isn't trying to kill her.”

But the bigger shift for Aaron hasn't been about training harder now that he has more time. It's been about showing up for other people.

He's known for driving long distances to cheer at teammates' competitions. Earlier this year, that meant helping record a teammate's lifts at a meet out in St. Charles.

"I just love the effort put out, and I do my best to absorb some of that same energy," Aaron said. "I always love being able to help, even with the small things."

That same instinct shows up on Sunday mornings, too. Aaron's part of the regular Sunday open gym crew, the ones who show up to work on weaknesses, do some lifting, or catch up on something they missed earlier in the week. If you've never joined them, he'd tell you to pop in. The more, the merrier.

What He'd Tell Someone New

If a brand-new member asked Aaron why they should stick around past the first three months, his answer is simple.

"This place grows on you. You develop the relationships, and you want to show up to work out, sweat, and grind right along with your new friends."

He's watched it happen in real time with newer members finding their footing and building friendships that keep them coming back.

Proud, Not Finished

Fifteen years is a long time to keep choosing the same gym. Ask Aaron what his younger self would think if he could see him now, and he doesn't talk about gold stars or records.

"I think 15-years-ago me would be proud that I'm still here. Not because I've mastered everything, I definitely haven't, but because I kept coming back, kept challenging myself, and kept taking care of my body. At 57, being able to walk into CFR, train hard, and still have things I want to improve is something I'm genuinely proud of."

A quick note to explain the photo choice, because this is not the type of picture I typically include for a CFR member story. But if you flip through 15 years of CFR photos looking for Aaron, you'll notice something... He's rarely the one front and center. He's in the background of someone's PR, grinning in a group shot, holding a phone up to record someone else's lift. Some people show up for the spotlight. Aaron shows up for everyone else's.

That's Aaron's story. Fifteen years, thousands of classes, and he's still not done.

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